-- bumper sticker
my sister and mom one time when I was really little read aloud that bumper sticker in a random tourist store and laughed...I had no idea why...until I grew some common sense.
I like men..obviously. but I like the stereotypes about manly men. I do like that they can be arrogant and rude, sometimes absolute pigs (keyword: sometimes), AND the way they validate themselves (by a lot of the time being absolute assholes). luckily, I was given the type of personality that allows me to contradict myself all the time..so I very much at times dislike those things, but of course that's only when I'm not in the best mood. personally, I think women can also be just as difficult, we just have more sense of emotions and consideration. and yes, I know, some guys are great with emotions but I am positive any two females can connect better than any sensitive guy and random female in this world. some stuff is just a natural gender bond. anyways, I think as much as we hate on men, or the alpha males in this world, or the arrogant assholes in this world, they need to be appreciated (not too much) but enough for them to stay the way they are. we can learn from them in certain ways. maybe not the healthiest, but I mean not all lessons are meant to be healthily taught..correct? I think so. people will disagree, but that is humanity. just like the assholes. don't change it, appreciate it.
you never know when somebody is the "right" somebody. it's relative. I mean I can't decide for you, I can't tell you the golden rule. I have MY golden rule, and I'm not nearly similar enough to anybody for that golden rule to even make sense to you. if you need me to generalize, I would just tell you to figure out what you're lacking, and if that person completes you in a way that doesn't hinder your abilities or change your character. I know, I sound like your mother. what do you want from it? passion? ease? it depends on what you want. I will say though, passion usually triumphs. at least for me. aka head vs. heart, usually heart triumphs. just make sure you don't screw yourself over. I know I haven't...yet.
