" women are meant to be loved, not understood. "
-- oscar wilde
I mean, maybe he's just saying that because women can't be understood. you can always try, right? sorta like how women try very hard to understand men, but we conclude that they are just idiots. or complicated. or selfish. or "acting like a woman". so I guess the safe route would be to care, nurture, support, or just love the woman. yeah at the core we women are a bit crazy (even explosive), manipulative, all-knowing, and stubborn..but we're also very unaware of the fact that we are too similar to one another. it's very easy to understand another woman, just put ourselves into her shoes right? so does this mean we are very easy to interpret? or is this just something in our code, that's drilled into our brains right when we're born?
either way, it's lucky that there's a code for all men to behave with all women. simply just to love. I'm going to admit that I think the same code applies to men, men are just too manly to admit it. men love being loved. everybody loves being loved. half the fun is knowing you are misunderstood but still very much loved. let's see, if we understood men entirely, would there be any real use for them? no. if people understood the opposite sex, where would the intrigue be? tell me, where could I find the mystery? there's no fun being thrown in a maze knowing exactly how to reach the goal. sometimes just running wild in that maze and losing all sanity along the way makes it worthwhile.
it's funny; a lot of women I know hate surprises. hate being disappointed. hate having to anticipate. what they will soon realize, that's exactly what will reel them in. a guy, who misunderstands. and quite literally only makes his woman do those things.