" do I have to listen to you complain for the rest of your life for the rest of my life? "
-- doctor cox
now whoever watches scrubs understands that the way jordan and doctor cox show love is through expressing pure hatred. trust me, they aren't the only ones. a lot of the time picking on somebody is just easier to do than actually show your love. showing love could even be a sign of weakness for some people. sometimes a person who is private could be mistaken for weak. but in that case, the joke's on the world, right? silence takes true strength. maybe I'm wrong, but silence is definitely something that takes a lot of willpower in my case. either way, whatever strength you possess, that'll be what is most valued by the people you value the most.
since strengths vary, doesn't that mean what is valued also varies? it is possible to value things that aren't necessarily strengths, but it is highly unlikely the person you value the most will value your best the least..did that make sense? yeah it did. good. the moment you underestimate your importance, the rest of the world also followed suit. you're not weak for expressing what is really on your mind; nor are you necessarily strong for covering it up. just always be true to your thoughts, because only you are trapped inside your head.
and who knows? your strengths will soon be somebody's weaknesses. even if your strength is just a smile or as big as your personality. people will always surprise you, just not as much as you'll surprise yourself.