9.15.2010

might as well shine together


" before you criticize, wait. "
-- william arthur ward

maybe I should take my own blog's advice. I have a nasty habit of thinking too much about how situations will play out, or how people will play out to be. either way, that should change. I mean, I'm not saying I'm wrong when I think of these things, it's always good to be prepared, but sometimes I jump to the worst conclusion. which then leads to me making a total fool of myself. I mean, I also think that I'm destined to do that each day, so there might not be a way out.

things are worth the wait. what things? maybe it's not worth it to wait to study for a huge exam the night before, but it is worth it to wait to watch the episode of modern family once you've done the laborious tasks. maybe I should've waited to write this blog until after I took my art history quiz. too late. it is worth it to wait to say what's on your mind when you are angry. it is worth it to let somebody vent out every possible detail which frustrates them before throwing in your opinion. it is worth the wait to see the person whom you have so longed to see when you know it will mean the world to the both of you, since the passion hasn't attempted to be dormant. maybe it is worth the wait to let the craving of double-stuffed oreos pass, that way you feel better when you crave dove chocolates. waiting can be good. as long as waiting is done properly. and yes, waiting is difficult. especially if what you are waiting for is the one thing that can make you extremely happy. but waiting is worth it.



never let what is important to you become less significant because you need to wait. I mean, let's be real here, if you can even let something become less significant, you should probably stop waiting entirely and let it go.